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PostSubject: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 12:28 am

I am sure some of you know that there is a long history with some of the members here. I also know that those of you who are in the know know who I am. If you know what I mean. Can that be more convoluted?

I have been welcomed back at arms length and I have accepted that. And, I deserve it.

Just wanted to say that my husband of almost 28 years to the day, died of a sudden brain aneurysm on Friday while working out of town as a contractor for a big company. He worked to get his Project Management Certificate and was one month away from completing his BA. He just turned 50 in June.

Point being, hug those close to you ALWAYS and tell them you love them. I loved that I could escape and watch BB (which my husband always indulged me). And to anyone I may have hurt along the way, I'm sorry. My hubs was bigger and brighter than me and I wrote:

"Your presence SO entirely filled every room you walked into that it's going to take a while to get used to hearing just an echo."

Happy for Derrick. Happy for the escape that is BB. And, thank you for listening/reading.

I am Hiya and I am Debbie.

Just had to get that off my chest. Now I have tiny boob shake
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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 12:43 am

I never knew you as anyone but HiYa, and I just want to say how VERY sorry I am for your loss!! My husband and I have been married 28 years and I can only imagine the depths of the emotions you must be feeling. Your description of him tells me he's someone I could admire, for his choice to keep working hard and obtain new goals in life. He is gone too soon, and that has to compound the loss you're feeling (like being 'robbed' in a sense) - I will keep you and your family in my prayers, Debbie.

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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 3:13 am

Hiya/Debbie

I am SO SO Sorry for your loss. 50 is much too young. Know that my prayers are with you.



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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 5:40 am

Oh dear. I'm so sorry. I send you all my love and big hugs to you.
I don't remember any problems or anything, so you are cool with me!
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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 7:14 am

I'm so sorry Debbie. How shocking for you and your family.
Please take care of yourself and know that we're all thinking of you.
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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 8:07 am

Debbie,
So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 9:54 am

so sorry for your loss...hugs and prayers to you and your family
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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 11:17 am

Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you have a strong support system around you.

Also, please know you can seek comfort here as I and others have done. The people on this site offer encouragement, love, a shoulder to cry on, etc. when you may not be receiving it in the real world.

And please don't worry about anything in the past. When one of us hurts, all of our hearts hurt. BB is just a game, but the loss of a loved one is real life.

Take care of yourself!!! Sending you lots of love and hugs!!
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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 2:06 pm

(((Debbie))) I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. Please know we are here for you anytime you need us.
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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 3:38 pm

I only know you as HiYa and my heart goes out to you. I am so sorry. A huge hug from me to you Deb.

I have found this site to be a kind place when someone needs to talk/share.

Again, so so sorry!

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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 9:39 pm

HiYa, so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. I too don't venture into the Lounge often enough, so I'm just now seeing this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 9:46 pm

HiYa, I am so sorry for your loss, don't know what else to say and I have been there.
just so sorry this has happened.
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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 25th 2014, 11:47 pm

Thank you all for your kind words. Been making a ton of phone calls and trying to straighten things out and coming to grips with the "new normal". I can't believe it will already be one week tomorrow (almost today where I am).

I've always been wary about sharing too many personal details about myself online, but just felt that I needed to get this off of my chest. I have been especially worried for my kids, but they have been amazing. I have a son who is 22 and a daughter who is 16. There are so many things that they had to look forward to with their Dad. They have also been my rocks.

I have family around me now and that's good. While BB is over, I look forward to Amazing Race and Survivor (still haven't seen the premiere yet) for the escape.

I can now say that I've experienced lingering death and sudden death. As we get older, I guess that is to be expected. But, both completely SUCK ASS.
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PostSubject: Re: I Never Post in Here   September 26th 2014, 2:11 am

I am so sorry for your loss Hiya.
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