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PostSubject: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 10:45 pm

I have been debating whether to make this post or not but I have decided to go ahead.


I hate asking for prayers, positive thoughts, or whatever you choose to do. But I am asking tonight.

For the last 5 years my husband and I have been trying to have a child. It has been the biggest challenge in my life.
Most everything in my life has been relatively easy but not this.

We have tried 2 IUI's, a failed IVF and about every fertility drug or wives tale that is out there. (I never want to hear the words "Just relax and it will happen!!!" ever again!!!) Through the first 4 years no one diagnosed us correctly but it turns out that I have the eggs of a 50 year old woman (I am 32)! This leaves us with three options- adoption, be childless, or use a donor egg. We have chosen to use a donor egg. We are using a frozen donor egg. This means that I will carry our child but the child will not have my dna. We have been through a lot of counseling and soul searching and this is our best option. We have chosen our egg and I will begin shots for the process in a few weeks. I am very hopeful that this will work but could use all the prayers and baby dust there is!

Thank you if you have read this all and thank you all for being such a wonderful online community! duts rule
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 10:47 pm



Throwing positive thoughts your way. Best of Luck!!
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 10:51 pm

All the positive thoughts you can handle...and some of the other stuff! big hug

And I do recommend relaxing, but really for your own sanity more than anything!
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 10:52 pm

Oh my gosh I just know it's going to work!!! I wish you all the luck in the world and I will certainly keep you in my thoughts and prayers! big hug
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 10:55 pm

Sending positive thoughts to you KMKB. I'm also sending the hope for a healthy child. Good luck!
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 10:58 pm

Good luck!!!! I'm sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers you way!!

A friend of mine did the same thing. She is now the Mom of almost 2 yr old twins, a boy and a girl. She tried IVF 2 previous times. So there is hope!!!

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 10:58 pm

Thank you all!!

@xubaby Luckily, I teach school and will be off for the summer when we are doing the procedure so that will help me relax! Also, is the XU in your name for Xavier Uni.?
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 10:59 pm

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Good luck!!!! I'm sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers you way!!

A friend of mine did the same thing. She is now the Mom of almost 2 yr old twins, a boy and a girl. She tried IVF 2 previous times. So there is hope!!!

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That is what I want to hear!! Very Happy This does have like a 70% success rate much higher than IVFs! Thanks!
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 11:00 pm

More positive thoughts on the way!

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 11:08 pm

KMKB wrote:
Thank you all!!

@xubaby Luckily, I teach school and will be off for the summer when we are doing the procedure so that will help me relax! Also, is the XU in your name for Xavier Uni.?

Yes. That is where I went to school. (And hubs too.)
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 11:28 pm

Sending a lot if baby dust your way!!!!!! Many thoughts and prayers to you and your husband, and I hope you day soon you will have the baby you have longed for. Smile
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 11:29 pm

Absolutely all the positive thoughts and prayers in the universe!!!
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 11:33 pm

Positive vibes your way cheek kiss
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 11:36 pm

Sending a big hug and positive vibes to you Smile

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 24th 2011, 11:49 pm

Sending positive thoughts!!!!
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 12:05 am

Thinking of you!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hope all works out for you! Smile

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 12:16 am


Oh KMKB, many positive thoughts and prayers are headed in your direction. I too struggled with infertility for 11 years...endometriosis was my diagnosis. Our beautiful daughter turned 21 in April. Keep the faith...everything will work out.
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 12:22 am

KMKB, whatever positive thoughts I have, they are all headed you way!

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 12:24 am

Positive, positive, positive thoughts your way
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 1:18 am

Sending many positive thoughts your way! My boss and her husband have gone through the same thing. She's actually starting her third round of IVF tomorrow.

Good luck!

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 1:57 am

KMKB, of course, sending positive thoughts flying to you.
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 1:58 am

I am praying and sending you and your husband positive thoughts.

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 2:52 am

Best of luck to you and your husband. POsi thoughts and prayers to you!!!!!!!

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 4:56 am

We wish you all the best! Mason wants to help too by sending you baby vibes and positive thoughts!!!
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 5:07 am

Next year you will have a beautiful baby to love, KMKB!! I know it will work!!

So fun...we will have another baby DUT born!!!!
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 5:13 am

Good luck to you. I really wish all the best no matter the outcome.
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 5:22 am

Lots and Lots of positive thoughts and hugs!

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 5:24 am

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KMKB, whatever positive thoughts I have, they are all headed you way!

lol! I am with current, don't have many to spare but willing to send them to you for this endeavor.

OMG, I am so freaked and nervous and excited for you. I think it's going to work. I want to hear what you feel like when you are pumped full of hormones, and all the details, about EVERYTHING. Thanks for letting us into your world and allowing us to experience the joy/pain of your experience.

ETA: Just because I said I don't like the "ask for prayers" posts doesn't mean everyone has to stop doing it!
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 6:25 am

KMKB LOTS of POSITIVE thoughts are coming your way and MANY prayers as well!

Keep us posted!!!

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 7:19 am

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 8:02 am

Showering you in lots of baby dust, prayers, and positive vibes!
I'll be thinking of you and hoping all works out well for you, hubby, and baby to be.
Ditto with above poster, about keeping us updated on the progress.
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 10:55 am

Good luck!
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 11:28 am

cheek kiss Good luck!!! I really hope everything works out, I have a feeling it will!

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 11:39 am

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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 12:09 pm

Sending you LOTS of good vibes/thoughts and prayers. It is such a personal and emotional journey trying to have a child and so difficult to talk about when it is a struggle (at least for me) so I admire your strength and courage in sharing this with us.
I hope you will be having the next AABB baby in no time (((())))
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 2:28 pm

I'm happy to send positive thoughts your way KMKB ... wishing for the best possible outcome for you and your husband.
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 2:57 pm

Many positive thoughts and prayers sent your way!!! It's going to happen!
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 5:18 pm

Sending positve thoughts...good luck.
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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 5:36 pm

Moody wrote:
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KMKB, whatever positive thoughts I have, they are all headed you way!

lol! I am with current, don't have many to spare but willing to send them to you for this endeavor.

OMG, I am so freaked and nervous and excited for you. I think it's going to work. I want to hear what you feel like when you are pumped full of hormones, and all the details, about EVERYTHING. Thanks for letting us into your world and allowing us to experience the joy/pain of your experience.

ETA: Just because I said I don't like the "ask for prayers" posts doesn't mean everyone has to stop doing it!

I have been on so many hormones over the last few years I know what to expect. I expect a mixture of these emotions .. ARRRG roll on floor laughi fuss and fight big cry

I did not ask specifically for prayers not because of your post (which I do remember) but because I feel with all the tornadoes, flooding, and such that my needs are so small comparably.


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Showering you in lots of baby dust, prayers, and positive vibes!
I'll be thinking of you and hoping all works out well for you, hubby, and baby to be.
Ditto with above poster, about keeping us updated on the progress.

I got my schedule for drugs and such today. It is a 5 week process(which sounds like FOREVER to me!!). I start shots in two weeks.

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Sending you LOTS of good vibes/thoughts and prayers. It is such a personal and emotional journey trying to have a child and so difficult to talk about when it is a struggle (at least for me) so I admire your strength and courage in sharing this with us.
I hope you will be having the next AABB baby in no time (((())))

Thank you. I am very open with my family and friends but it is different to put it out there to the virtual world. Infertility is such an emotional subject that I can see why people keep it to themselves. It is also funny sometimes.. I posted on Facebook a few weeks ago that I had received good news. Immediately several people said ooh is it a baby? I was like no I would shout that from the mountain top!


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PostSubject: Re: Positive thoughts needed!   May 25th 2011, 5:38 pm

Sending you my best wishes. Keep that positive attitude Hug wrap up in arms
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